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Reveal Your Love Language Based on Your Venus Sign Article by Krish Enriquez-Rai Zodiac artworks by Benedict Reyna  The Birth of Venus Painting by Sandro Botticelli Attracted to someone? Find the key to his or her heart by looking at the Venus sign in his/her birth chart (and check if you are compatible)! Did you know that there is more to us than just our Sun Signs? When someone wants to know more about other people's personality, taking a look at their Zodiac (Sun) Sign may give useful information. If you want to find out how they are when it comes to love and relationships, knowing placement of Venus in their Astrology Birth Chart is the key! Venus symbolizes beauty, pleasure, romance, luxury, and riches. It is your planet of LOVE! Anything about your love language: how you love and who you love, what you are attracted to and how you relate to other people can be explained by your Venus Sign!  Venus (2008) Deluxe Edition Michael Parkes For starters, yes, your Venus Sign may be different from your Sun Sign. You may be born with a Gemini Sun but your Venus could be in Cancer, for example. Now, each person has a different Venus placement in their chart which is why what works for one girl doesn't necessarily work the same for another. For instance, a person with Venus in Aquarius who has a chill and relaxed approach when it comes to relationships may need more alone time and less pressure compared to someone with Venus in Scorpio who craves more intensity, quality time, and assurance from their partners. Find out your Venus Sign HERE In this article, I'll be giving you a basic idea on what to expect from someone based on where their Venus falls in their natal chart. Take heart and read on!  Venus and Mars by Sandro Boticelli VENUS IN ARIES  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN ARIES Passionate, driven, daring, and straight-forward, these people are always on the move and ultimately focused when they've got their eyes on you! When it comes to the conquest of love, they want to take the lead: it's all or nothing, baby! They won't keep you guessing for once they are attracted to someone, they will be upfront about their interest and do their best to win that person's heart. Expect lots of action, playfulness, spontaneity, adventure, and fun activities! Make them fall by indulging their need for physical touch and quality time! What they dislike: Being controlled, clingy partner, emotional blackmail, beating around the bush, too serious approach to dating, boredom, dishonesty, and vagueness. In short, when you want something, don't give them a hint, tell them exactly what's up! VENUS IN TAURUS  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN TAURUS Comfort, relaxation, sensuality, stability, and emotional security: these are what these hopeless romantics want! Venus rules Taurus so this planet feels "at home" here. They have refined taste and appreciate the finest things in life. Dressing in a classy and polished fashion is their norm and they expect a partner who has the same image. They handle love and relationships well by taking it slow and steady, letting love develop as time goes by. Once committed, they are steadfast partners who love cuddling and giving massages. You can keep them by showering them nice, thoughtful gifts and spending quality time together. What they dislike: Impulsiveness, indecisiveness, and too much aggression. They may be possessive partners who hates infidelity and dishonesty who expect to receive the same amount of love that they give to you so do not make them jealous on purpose and avoid taking them for granted. VENUS IN GEMINI  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN GEMINI Intelligence, sharp mind, and a witty sense of humor: have these ready to captivate the Gemini Venusian! These people are naturally flirtatious who enjoy traveling, engaging in good conversation, and experiencing new things. With their fickle mind, wandering eye and the tendency to get bored easily, it is difficult to make them commit in a relationship right away because they have to see what or who else is out there before deciding in such important matters. They crave variety, spontaneity, mental stimulation and words of affirmation that boost their morale. What they dislike: Boring routines, lack of spice in the relationship, dull and shallow people and conversation. Forcing them to settle down and give up their freedom will make them run away so if you want someone steadfast as a lover, look the other way! But if you crave the similar things that Venusian Geminis do, go for it and keep the love alive! VENUS IN CANCER  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN CANCER "A love that consumes you": romance and passion gets them everytime! Extremely sensitive, sentimental and loyal, Venus in Cancer people falls for someone who gives them a sense of peace, security, and comfort. Give them the emotional support that they need and they will return it with explosive sensuality. Gifted with a great imagination and a strong intuition, they know what makes their partner tick and they aim to please. They are natural caretakers who want to be taken good care of. However, one of their problems is trying to "fix" someone who is broken. Remind them to have strong boundaries and to focus on themselves more so there will be balance in your relationships. When they commit to someone, they expect to be totally one with their partner which means that you have to share and tell them everything too. Acts of service is their main love language. What they dislike: Cancer Venusians hates mind games and condescending attitude. They dread isolation and rejection, and the feeling of indifference and being left out by their loved-ones. When they are betrayed, they tend to hold grudges. They don't easily forgive and forget. VENUS IN LEO  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN LEO Being the center of attention in their lover's Universe is what the fun-loving Leo Venus wants: they live for praises, flattery, words of appreciation, and constant affection. When in-love, they want to be in the spotlight and to be the first priority as that is how they treat their partners too. When it comes to relationships, it's fire or nothing: they crave excitement and take love as a conquest. Laughter, optimism, and smiles is what happens when they are around. As a natural social butterfly, they want to keep the party alive wherever they are! They may be flamboyant and dramatic and act as if their love life is a movie. As a fan of grand gestures, they enjoy gift-giving to their loved ones. Words of affirmation and receiving/buying gifts are their main live language. What they dislike: Talks about past lovers, boredom and too calm atmosphere makes them feel awkward, being unappreciated and coming last in their lover's list of priorities, easy-to-get people for they enjoy conquest and "hunting", receiving unthoughtful cheap gifts, and forgetting important dates such as birthdays and anniversaries. VENUS IN VIRGO  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN VIRGO Romantic - this is something that they are not. Virgo Venusians' are analytical perfectionists. They are refined, clean, structured, and orderly and their approach to love and relationship stands on the practical side. For others, they may seem reserved or even dull, yet their winning quality is their loyalty! They will notice even the smallest details, will listen to you when you talk, will give sound advice and will make you feel safe and secure. They tend to be attracted to a person who needs them, someone whom they think they can "fix". Quieter, timid and intellectual people turns them on as they enjoy engaging in logical, deep, and cerebral topics. Words of affirmation and acts of service are their love language. What they dislike: Noisy, rude, disorganized, and overly dramatic people. They hate superficiality, shallowness and clutter. If you can't keep up with their level of intellect, try researching about their topics of interest so that you'll have an idea on what to talk to them about with. Quit talking only about mundane stuff such as partying, drinks, fun, and gossips, they're not interested. VENUS IN LIBRA  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN LIBRA Falling in love with love and obsessing with all matters about relationships is the norm for Venus in Libra. Ever the charming and passionate one, they love it when their partners are clingy and dependent on them as they like the idea of "togetherness". They enjoy spending time together and doing the same activities, they aim to please and are willing to compromise, however, they expect the same amount of effort from their partners too! That said, they tend to keep score and when they feel that things are not "fair" that they're "giving more" but "receiving less", it makes them even more demanding, argumentative, and overbearing. They want support, quality time and physical touch and they need someone who can ground them and keep them in check. What they dislike: Criticisms, impatience, inequality (because everything should be fair), unsupportive partner who starts arguments and fights, and too much "space" and time apart, because for them, if you're together, you literally have to be "together". VENUS IN SCORPIO  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN SCORPIO Sensuality, romance, passion, erotic intimacy, and an all-consuming love are what these charismatic Scorpion Venus people want in a relationship. Yes, the kind that pierce through the depths of your body, mind, and soul. They are the type who wants to prove their physical desirability. They don't want you to give them pieces of you, they want all of you! Some people may get intimidated by their intensity and only the ones who are emotionally grounded and stable can last them. They may be possessive of their partners so them being territorial and jealous shouldn't come as a surprise; after all, they are ready to give all that they have when they fall deeply and madly in-love. Physical touch is their love language. What they dislike: Moodiness, being taken for granted, making them jealous, their partners having a very close friendship with the opposite sex or another who they might think is a threat, sex that lacks passion and sparks. VENUS IN SAGITTARIUS  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN SAGITTARIUS If there is anyone else who love to travel and embark on an adventurous journey with their significant other, they are the Venus in Sagittarius people. Well-known as the life of the party, they aim to make people laugh and bring the energy of the crowd up. They love the outdoors, various physical activities, and an active lifestyle. They are not the types who will stay-at-home Netflix-and-chilling for the whole week! Considered the daredevils and explorers, they want to see what else is out there to discover in the world so if you wanna keep them, get your travel gears ready because it will be one good hell of a ride! What they dislike: Boring routines, being confined or staying at one place for a very long time, lack of entertainment, dull or lack of sense of humor, a person who refuses not to try new things and experiences. VENUS IN CAPRICORN  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN CAPRICORN Stability, comfort, tradition, and security in a relationship is what matters for Capricorn Venusians who tend to build a strong high wall around themselves with only a few people allowed to come in. These people are not the type who fall in-love easily, in fact, they are very cautious before committing in a relationship and devoting themselves to someone. However, once they do, they will be willing to let their guard down and be vulnerable to you. On the outside, they may seem to be the typical logical and unromantic fellow but only a few lucky people can witness their warm, affectionate and tender side. When they decide to commit in a relationship, they are in it for the long haul! Quality time and receiving gifts are their love language. What they dislike: Laziness: lack of discipline, cleanliness, structure and order; brash, crass, and loud behavior; unwillingness to work and having no job; too much superficiality and drama, wasteful in money and resources. VENUS IN AQUARIUS  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN AQUARIUS Chemistry and sparks, physical attraction and mental stimulation, Venus in Aquarius will only fall in-love if they find that you share a deep connection with them. Even though they value pulchritude, it is important that their partner is bright, smart, intelligent, a good conversationalist, well-read, quick-witted with matching sense of humor: without it they easily lose interest. Aquarian Venus loves deeply even in long distance. Just because they are not calling every hour doesn't' mean that they don't think of you. Venus Aquarians needs to have freedom and space so they can focus on their own thoughts and dwell in their own world. Once that need is fulfilled, they will be ready to spend quality time with you. Needless to say, if there is anyone who needs "me-time" the most amongst all Venus sign, it's them. Receiving and giving gifts and acts of service are their love language. What they dislike: Possessive, insecure, jealous, and too dependent partners, superficiality and shallowness, and too much togetherness because that freaks them out! If you threaten to take away their need for freedom and space, prepare yourself for they will surely walk out the door and never go back. If you want to keep Venus Aquarians interested, you got to be your own person who has his/her own goals and dreams for they will support you on that as long as you let them be. VENUS IN PISCES  Artwork by Ben Reyna VENUS IN PISCES Ever the ultimate hopeless romantic, Venus Pisceans are spiritual individuals who care deeply and are devoted lovers. To be totally one with their partner is their main objective. They think of love and relationship as something that is magical, and they strongly believe in the idea of destiny, fate, and soulmates. They are easy to fall in-love with because of their warm and charming personality. There is something mystical and mysterious about them which makes them elusive and hard to pin down; however, once you catch them and discover what makes them tick, they will be attracted to you. Arts, beauty, and creative stuff inspires them. Physical touch and quality time are their love language. What they dislike: Indecisiveness, lack of spirituality and sensitivity. Someone who is cold-hearted and refuses to totally commit. If you wanna be with a Piscean Venus, you have to be willing to devote yourself totally with them and the relationship. About the Writer  Hi! I am Krish. I have her Sun in Pisces, Moon in Leo, and Ascendant in Sagittarius. Crystal healing, reiki, and natal astrology & tarot reading are some of the esoteric practices that I am practicing. Follow my social media accounts on Facebook: Krish Enriquez-Rai Instagram: @iamkrishenriquez Astral Crystal Shop About the Artist  Benedict Reyna is a Philippine based visual artist who does painting, fantasy and fiction illustration, and concept art.
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