Being a Creature Unlike Any Other
In my experience in dating and also in marriage, I have realized that it is indeed essential to emphasize that before you consider dating, you must focus first on being “The Best Version of One’s Own Self”. This is the most important because if not, most likely, our relationships will fail.
In this Universe, everything is made of energy hence the saying, like attracts like. If you still have lots of baggages being carried within you, emotional healing and inner work must be done.
If I ask you right now, "what is it that you really want in a relationship? What kind of a person do you imagine yourself being married to? What are the characteristics that you like a romantic partner to have?", will you be able to answer them clearly?
It is actually surprising that most people are more choosy when it comes to shopping for shoes than when they are dating someone else. When we are not clear on what we want, then how do we expect to manifest a good relationship? What does a good relationship even mean for you? Not sure yet of what you want? Write them down.
Also, it is quite common to meet people who have high standards but are ashamed of it because they feel like they are going to be judged by others. Some of them even think that they do not deserve it.
Part of being a Creature Unlike Any Other is being open to receiving love AND feeling deserving and worthy of it. If you feel like your standards are way too high, then maybe you need to make yourself look hotter, or smarter, or more organized so that when your dream guy or girl finally comes your way, you are ready!
Never underestimate the power of preparation, love!
Aim to be the best person that you can be physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. Never sell yourself short and do not settle for less. After investing so much time, money, and effort toeards self-betterment, of course, it is only right to raise your standards!
I realized that being your best self, is a form of spirituality, a lifestyle, and a mentality. It is more than just looking pretty, dressing elegantly, and practicing “scripted” lines to your prospective dates If we disregard this, we may become needy, clingy, insecure, and “trying too hard” because we do things, not out of “love” but out of “desperation. ”
When someone comes from the energy of desperation by begging, most likely, it may make you settle for less than what you deserve, since would think that you are not THAT great and deserving. Change that self-limiting mindset! That is a lie!
You see, when you are already CONTENT with yourself, with your persona, with who you are, you wouldn’t care less about being with people who don’t love you.
You choose to love those who love you and avoid toxic people who only bring you drama. When you are finally the best person that you could possibly be, you wouldn’t care less whether a guy just poofs out of nowhere or stopped calling and texting because you know that you are enough, that you do not need any other mortal being to complete you – you are already complete like a delicious cake with all the perfect ingredients, and “Mr. Right” is just your icing on the cake, a finishing product. He is like a glossy top coat finish over your perfect nail polish.
So, please, have faith. No matter how hard things might seem at first, you will get used to it. Do not let rejection, breakups, and “the guy who did not call you back” break your heart totally. Remember, you were able to live without them for a very long time, what makes you think you can’t leave without them at all? Whatever happens, you will be just fine.
WE ATTRACT WHAT WE THINK. If you are a spiritually healthy person, you will attract a spiritually healthy person also. So we might as well spend our time thinking of positive thoughts and acting out on it instead of wasting precious time with negativity.
Best of luck! 💖
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